my nyc friends are all delaying babies as much as they can
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:03 AM Author: gunt
and making me jelly as f. with their DINK lives
they are married too and can definitely financially pull it off right now
they are just refusing
their husbands are pushing for it but they refuse to do it now
they're 31-32
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850231) |
Date: April 16th, 2018 10:04 AM Author: gunt
my sister (not in NYC) is also delaying babies as much as she can
her husband has been pushing for it since like 2016 but every year she's like, eh maybe i will start trying next spring
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850239)
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:06 AM Author: gunt
xo talks all this shit about women trying to have babbies to trap men. i think that's just if you're drake or usher or trump, etc.
i don't think that is UMC relevant at all.
women are putting this off as much as possible ime.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850253) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 11:29 AM
Author: ..,.,.,.,..,.:.,.,.,..,.,..':.,.,.,.,,,
(brunching instagram travel shrew)
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35858755) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:00 AM
Author: ,..,.,..,.,;.,:,...,:::,...,.,.,:,.,.::.
Compketely agree. Wtf are you going to do past 40?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850610) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:08 AM
Author: ,..,.,..,.,;.,:,...,:::,...,.,.,:,.,.::.
At 45? 50? Seems like that would get real old after a while
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850666) |
Date: April 16th, 2018 10:06 AM
Author: ....::::..::..,,....,........,..,,,,,.
Why? Is it because of MY career?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850254) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:42 AM
Author: ,..,.,..,.,;.,:,...,:::,...,.,.,:,.,.::.
Damn. CATFIGHT!!!
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850484) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:52 PM Author: Reactionary Dandy
Lmao charles, my man, you talked to a chick jealous of her traditional sister who has 6 kids, who you could probably squeeze at least 4 kids out of for parity, who is willing to talk to you for an hour, and you didn't get her number?
Track her down, you fool.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35856629)
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:04 AM Author: The Bottom Bitch (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me)
people criticize my life all the time
6 kids means half a decade of your life spent pregnant
it just seems like you'd have no identity anymore - your entire life is devoted to raising all your kids
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850641) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:11 AM Author: Rafael Ironside, ELEVEN TIME Monte Carlo Champion
sure, so i'd think you'd try to avoid doing the same to a woman who is clearly doing what makes her happy.
so what re pregnancy? maybe she likes being pregnant. maybe she just likes the outcome of the pregnancies. it's not like nobody becomes a doctor because it requires 12 years of advanced education/training.
some people really enjoy the identity of being a parent. i mean, that criticism could just as easily be applied to getting married or being in a relationship.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850694) |
Date: April 16th, 2018 10:12 AM Author: Daytona Beach 1986
Night A: Very dressed up, uncomfortable clothes, exclusive club, very loud DJ'd music (no song you will know in ten years, more just a driving bass), a handful of $15 cocktails and maybe some drugs, how the fuck is it 3AM already haha, ESPN heads talking inaudibly on tv screens over the bar which you stare at while your friends are in the bathroom, staying just sober enough to perform well at sex with the person you're taking home at 5AM
Night B: sweatpants, reading your baby "the runaway bunny" and genuinely laughing because he smiled when he farted, and brushing your nose against his forehead to tickle him, and sort of squeezing him into the space between you and your wife's chest, imagining you can hear all three heartbeats, passing out by 11PM because he will make little noises for milk by 2AM
If people choose A over B, I salute that shit, but cannot for the life of me figure out why you'd prefer that past age 30
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850299) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:16 AM Author: Verne lundquist
honestly night a sounds terrible and night b can be 180.
but the married DINKs are more like: $400 omakase sushi dinner with another DINK couple and then a $20 cocktail at a jazz bar, uber home to $5000 a month 1.5 BR apartment.
they also take a ton of weekend trips and blow $ freely.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850327) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 1:05 PM Author: nutella
Night B is more often than not a toddler trying to delay bedtime for 45 min, and asking for water, different book, different stuffed toy, then screaming bloody murder for 30 min when you finally say “that’s it, no more, lights out.” Also if they’re no longer in a crib, they can walk out a lot to bother you and you have to walk them back every single time.
There are nice moments when they snuggle with you before bedtime, say “I love you mommy” and don’t protest when you say “ok this is the last book,” but that’s probably not the case 80% of the time. Amnesia and nostalgia is what makes you remember only the good stuff years later.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35851429) |
Date: April 16th, 2018 10:34 AM Author: Rafael Ironside, ELEVEN TIME Monte Carlo Champion
stuff like in the OP is a bad reason to put off having kids. probably the worst reason actually.
if someone isn't sure whether they want kids at all, i could see waiting. or if they are so financially strained that they can't make it work, then fine.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850426) |
Date: April 16th, 2018 10:37 AM Author: ma anand sheela
one of my wife's shrew friends is coming to visit us in a few weeks. was a jewish "ad exec" in MFH, parents live on cape cod.
-unmarried cock carousel til 35
-marries MBA dork she met on j-date at 36
-move to DC at 36, husband gets $800k/yr job
-breast reduction at 37
-pops out autistic son at 38
-pops out boy-girl twins that may or may not be autistic at 40
-is bored with DC and demands they move back to NYC at 41 (meanwhile they have custom built a $1.5M house in NoVa that she no longer wants. they sell it back to the buyer for break-even, which is a miracle)
-they are so in debt that the best they can do is renting a 3BR somewhere near Rutgers so the husband can commute to NYC 90 min each way
-last I heard husband wants to now do a postbac at age 44 so that he can go to med school at age 46 with three special needs kids under the age of 5
-oh, and they're custom building another house in Westchester now.
shrew doesn't drink and my wife is pregnant so i guess I'll have not one but two DDs on cinco de mayo. oops i guess she's a B cup now
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850445) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:57 PM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,....,:,..,:.:.,:.::,
MFH
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35856181) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 11:50 AM
Author: .,.,,.;;...;;.;;;.;.;.....;;......;;....
- being in debt with an 800k/year salary
- going back to med school in your 40s despite making 800k/year
- buildig multiple houses from scratch despite wanting to go back to med school and being in debt
very elaborate, well executed flame
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35858945) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:20 PM
Author: ,..,.,..,.,;.,:,...,:::,...,.,.,:,.,.::.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35859779) |
Date: April 16th, 2018 11:48 PM
Author: ..............;...................
I don't think people really understand what it means to have young kids when you're 40.
I'm early 30s and feel too old for some of this shit, then I see a couple of 40 year olds so set in their ways as they scream at each other about parenting.
I get that these people are trying to soak up their last carefree years w/o a baby, but they don't realize that you need at least some of that carefree attitude to raise a baby or you'll go ballistic.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35856604) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:27 PM
Author: ,..,.,..,.,;.,:,...,:::,...,.,.,:,.,.::.
I am a nokidmo in a DINK relationship. We are both in our early 30s. Even just 5 years ago, my habits would have been flexible enough to accomodate a child and a needy gf. Now, I am really set in my ways and just have less energy and patience, so bringing in a kid would require a huge psychological and change in habits. It would be tough, but I still want one. Way less patience for women though, and it takes two to tango...
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35859837) |
Date: April 16th, 2018 11:53 PM
Author: .,.,,.;;...;;.;;;.;.;.....;;......;;....
one of my biggest fears is having some autist for a kid b/c we waited too long
i don't think anyone ever feels ready for a baby, but a woman's bio clock means she needs to have it by 35
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35856640) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:34 PM
Author: ,..,.,..,.,;.,:,...,:::,...,.,.,:,.,.::.
This society makes it artificially difficult and stressful to raise children.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35859905) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:46 PM
Author: ,..,.,..,.,;.,:,...,:::,...,.,.,:,.,.::.
ty
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35860021) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:47 PM Author: ma anand sheela
even up until 50 years ago people just had 6-8 kids because they were laborers and you were bound to lose 1-2 along the way anyway.
now, with birth control, shitty nutrition, and waiting until you're past traditional life expectancy to start having kids, EVERY LIFE IS PRECIOUS and if anything negative happens to your kid your life is over.
i remember playing with my friends in the woods miles away from my house. my parents never batted an eye. today? lol you'd be in jail instantly.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35860032) |
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