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my nyc friends are all delaying babies as much as they can
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:03 AM Author: gunt and making me jelly as f. with their DINK lives
they are married too and can definitely financially pull it off right now
they are just refusing
their husbands are pushing for it but they refuse to do it now
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:04 AM Author: gunt my sister (not in NYC) is also delaying babies as much as she can
her husband has been pushing for it since like 2016 but every year she's like, eh maybe i will start trying next spring
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:05 AM Author: GOTTA MOVE FAST Recipe for guaranteed long term happiness here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850248) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:06 AM Author: gunt xo talks all this shit about women trying to have babbies to trap men. i think that's just if you're drake or usher or trump, etc.
i don't think that is UMC relevant at all.
women are putting this off as much as possible ime. |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:08 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850269) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:09 AM Author: GOTTA MOVE FAST There's no fucking point to anything if you're skipping the family building part of life. I say this as a dink no kidmo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850278) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:10 AM Author: gunt I don't want to go into if you should or shouldn't have kids. I'm not sure it's for everyone.
I'm just saying I don't see women trying to trap men via kids at all. In fact, I mostly see men having to urge women to have kids. |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:06 AM Author: huey magoo tbf u say they're all already married so what's their incentive to "trap" anyone now? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850647) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 3:10 PM Author: gunt divorce before childhaving is far less of a deal than after childhaving (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35852298) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:14 AM Author: the marvel cinematic universe having kids won't give your life any meaning. it'll just make you poorer and more stressed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850317) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:14 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850320) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:49 AM Author: the goys are back in town not my experience at all. of course they give my life meaning and i actually spend less money because shit like traveling seems pointless now (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850538) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 11:29 AM Author: ..,,.,.;.,.,...,.,..:,,.,.,,..,.,..:.,.,:,.,,, (brunching instagram travel shrew) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35858755) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:00 AM Author: ''''''''''"' Compketely agree. Wtf are you going to do past 40? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850610) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:01 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) Spend time with friends, family, your spouse/life partner, travel, go out/explore your city, enjoy sleeping in on the weekend lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850622) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:08 AM Author: ''''''''''"' At 45? 50? Seems like that would get real old after a while (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850666) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:14 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside "Uh, yeah, sure, I guess we havn't seen that much of Little Neck in the 27 years we've lived here." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850709) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:21 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) Oh I intend to live in a big city that won't get boring for that very reason. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850761) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:26 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside Little Neck is in NYC (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850812) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:28 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) Oh I thought it was Nassau country
regardless, I mean the CITY - like Brooklyn or Manhattan, not a far off part of queens that may as well be its own little town. |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) maybe I'm unique in this matter, but I have a lot of relationships in my life. My mother is my best friends and we meet all of the time for dinner, lunch and movies. My brother and I are exceptionally close as well. I have a lot of cousins also.
I have a lot of friends, I have co-workers I'm friends with as well. This is in addition to the husband I imagine myself having. I just don't see myself missing out if I don't have kids. |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:31 AM Author: Wilbur Mercer, the supreme gentleman (Short Pride World Wide) ?? xo never talks about women having babies to trap men (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850399) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:37 AM Author: gunt OK I may have made this up. Well regardless, it's WRONG (for UMC women under 35 at least, maybe some of them do this after 35). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850892) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:40 AM Author: Refunkulus (never count out a MUSCLE NUT) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850463) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:06 AM Author: ....::::..::..,,....,........,..,,,,,. Why? Is it because of MY career? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850254) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:06 AM Author: gunt partially (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850258) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:06 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) Same
I'm glad because I still have people to go out with :) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:06 AM Author: gunt well you're not married. that's a good reason to delay it. until marriage.
they're married. |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:42 AM Author: ''''''''''"' Damn. CATFIGHT!!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850484) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:34 AM Author: gunt no it's not. i just don't support some mindy kaling bs where you knock yourself up with a sperm tube and ensure that the kid won't have a dad lol. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850872) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:37 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) Yeah I didn't take it as an insult (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850890) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:46 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside i can't understand anyone who gets married and then waits years and years before having kids. makes no sense to me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850514) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:36 AM Author: gunt what's your current situation? the only thing that comes to my mind about your irl is boob jobs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850884) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:40 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside engaged to a wonderful girl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850910) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:41 AM Author: gunt does she have implants? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850914) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:42 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside post-kids she will (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850919) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:43 AM Author: gunt wtf why? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850921) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:43 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside bc she has pretty nice C-cups and she doesn't want anything to potentially interfere with being able to breastfeed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850924) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:45 AM Author: gunt why would she need implants after (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850930) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:49 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside because her tits will probably need them and she'll look better with them in any event (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850953) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:58 AM Author: gunt breastfeeding hasn't altered boob shape imo but my nipples seem permanently larger. how gross? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35851013) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 12:00 PM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) Are big nipples gross?
my nipples are naturally large and puffy |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 12:01 PM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside large nipples are fine. large areola are gross. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35851037) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:46 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) lol can't believe y'all planned this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850937) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:49 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside she wanted implants before she met me, but only after kids. i'm fine with that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850950) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:07 AM Author: CHARLES DIGITAL (CharlesXII) Met a girl last night insanely jealous if her sister for having six kids at 34. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850267) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:08 AM Author: gunt how is dating? was this part of new dating initiative? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850270) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 1:25 PM Author: CHARLES DIGITAL (CharlesXII) Wasn't really a date but it was at a social event I only attended for the sake of meeting people and I talked to her for a good hour or so. Probably should have copped a # but I fucked it up because I am bad at this shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35851572) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 2:47 PM Author: gunt huh you need some help (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35852106) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 2:51 PM Author: CHARLES DIGITAL (CharlesXII) Badly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35852139) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:52 PM Author: Honda Grom ripping away over the horizon Lmao charles, my man, you talked to a chick jealous of her traditional sister who has 6 kids, who you could probably squeeze at least 4 kids out of for parity, who is willing to talk to you for an hour, and you didn't get her number?
Track her down, you fool.
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:14 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) ew @ 6 kids
that's kill self territory |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:29 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside why is that killself territory anymore than just partying with people?
you'd surely balk at someone criticizing your life choices, so not sure why you'd do the same for someone else who clearly apparently enjoys having a big family full of kids who bring her joy. |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:32 AM Author: Wilbur Mercer, the supreme gentleman (Short Pride World Wide) that's bluesmoke my bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850402) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:34 AM Author: MAF speak-and-spell retard (u$po) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850420) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:37 AM Author: jared kushner (HOT on the trail of collusion) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850449) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:04 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) people criticize my life all the time
6 kids means half a decade of your life spent pregnant
it just seems like you'd have no identity anymore - your entire life is devoted to raising all your kids |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:11 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside sure, so i'd think you'd try to avoid doing the same to a woman who is clearly doing what makes her happy.
so what re pregnancy? maybe she likes being pregnant. maybe she just likes the outcome of the pregnancies. it's not like nobody becomes a doctor because it requires 12 years of advanced education/training.
some people really enjoy the identity of being a parent. i mean, that criticism could just as easily be applied to getting married or being in a relationship. |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:22 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) To each his own. Obviously I wouldn't discourage someone else from having six kids. It's just for me that would be a fate worse than death. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850769) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:08 AM Author: Upset Jew The Poa-star Are you sure they can really afford it though? Because even pre-school in MFH is 30k a year. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850271) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:08 AM Author: gunt I'm 100% sure they can afford it. Maybe their careers can't but their households can. In fact one of them owns a 3 bed in MFH for just her and her husband. No cribs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850274) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:12 AM Author: BEAVER Night A: Very dressed up, uncomfortable clothes, exclusive club, very loud DJ'd music (no song you will know in ten years, more just a driving bass), a handful of $15 cocktails and maybe some drugs, how the fuck is it 3AM already haha, ESPN heads talking inaudibly on tv screens over the bar which you stare at while your friends are in the bathroom, staying just sober enough to perform well at sex with the person you're taking home at 5AM
Night B: sweatpants, reading your baby "the runaway bunny" and genuinely laughing because he smiled when he farted, and brushing your nose against his forehead to tickle him, and sort of squeezing him into the space between you and your wife's chest, imagining you can hear all three heartbeats, passing out by 11PM because he will make little noises for milk by 2AM
If people choose A over B, I salute that shit, but cannot for the life of me figure out why you'd prefer that past age 30 |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:13 AM Author: gunt They're not doing night A they are all married. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850309) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:15 AM Author: BEAVER so what are they doing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850324) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:16 AM Author: gunt dinner parties. brunch. spontaneous trips.
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:47 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside i know plenty of people with kids in affluent suburbs who do that shit. the difference tends to be in the frequency. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850523) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:16 AM Author: Verne lundquist honestly night a sounds terrible and night b can be 180.
but the married DINKs are more like: $400 omakase sushi dinner with another DINK couple and then a $20 cocktail at a jazz bar, uber home to $5000 a month 1.5 BR apartment.
they also take a ton of weekend trips and blow $ freely. |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:18 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) Most people on xo are introverted I think, so they don't really enjoy going out in large groups of people/partaking in nightlife.
Personally I'd prefer night A. |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:20 AM Author: BEAVER how old?
i did night A my entire 20s |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:34 AM Author: Wilbur Mercer, the supreme gentleman (Short Pride World Wide) I have lots of sex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850416) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 1:05 PM Author: nutella Night B is more often than not a toddler trying to delay bedtime for 45 min, and asking for water, different book, different stuffed toy, then screaming bloody murder for 30 min when you finally say “that’s it, no more, lights out.” Also if they’re no longer in a crib, they can walk out a lot to bother you and you have to walk them back every single time.
There are nice moments when they snuggle with you before bedtime, say “I love you mommy” and don’t protest when you say “ok this is the last book,” but that’s probably not the case 80% of the time. Amnesia and nostalgia is what makes you remember only the good stuff years later. |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 3:00 PM Author: BEAVER train dog to sleep in toddler's bed, both stay there very happy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35852217) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:33 AM Author: jared kushner (HOT on the trail of collusion) Good for them. Time to end the human “experiment” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850407) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:34 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside stuff like in the OP is a bad reason to put off having kids. probably the worst reason actually.
if someone isn't sure whether they want kids at all, i could see waiting. or if they are so financially strained that they can't make it work, then fine. |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:37 AM Author: ma anand sheela one of my wife's shrew friends is coming to visit us in a few weeks. was a jewish "ad exec" in MFH, parents live on cape cod.
-unmarried cock carousel til 35 -marries MBA dork she met on j-date at 36 -move to DC at 36, husband gets $800k/yr job -breast reduction at 37 -pops out autistic son at 38 -pops out boy-girl twins that may or may not be autistic at 40 -is bored with DC and demands they move back to NYC at 41 (meanwhile they have custom built a $1.5M house in NoVa that she no longer wants. they sell it back to the buyer for break-even, which is a miracle) -they are so in debt that the best they can do is renting a 3BR somewhere near Rutgers so the husband can commute to NYC 90 min each way -last I heard husband wants to now do a postbac at age 44 so that he can go to med school at age 46 with three special needs kids under the age of 5 -oh, and they're custom building another house in Westchester now.
shrew doesn't drink and my wife is pregnant so i guess I'll have not one but two DDs on cinco de mayo. oops i guess she's a B cup now |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:40 AM Author: deus vult (from constantinople to the stars) while third tier medical schools are certainly better than biglaw let's not go quite so far as to say bros with 800k salaries are just doing post-bacc in their 40s (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850461) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:42 AM Author: ma anand sheela i wish this was flame bro. he was an EMT in undergrad and recently started doing it again on a volunteer basis and thinks it's his calling. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850483) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:56 PM Author: .,.,,.;;...;;.;;;.;.;.....;.;;;;.....; they both sound retarded (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35856666) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:43 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside before/after pic of the tits pls (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850487) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:44 AM Author: ma anand sheela lol I thought this might summon you
I don't know that I have any. she went off Facebook/IG as soon as she met the J-Date guy |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:44 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside lol, sad! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850501) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:06 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) Lmao
you're awful! |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:12 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside i'm just saying what we're all thinking :)
admit you weren't even a little curious and i'll call you a liar |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 12:40 PM Author: ted cruz tp Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35851242) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 3:01 PM Author: Cogsworth How are they in debt with 800k/yr job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35852231) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:57 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,....,:,..,:.:.,:.::, MFH (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35856181) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 11:33 AM Author: ma anand sheela she runs up credit cards like there's no tomorrow. still paying off HER masters and HIS MBA, both of which were at sticker and not paid for by her rich parents. mortgage on the NoVa house was $8500/month. huge car payments; they both drive brand new Mercedes that they replace every 12-18 months. they sold their NoVa house back for what they paid for it, but plenty of transaction costs they lost. didn't have relocation back to NYC (took the dude three months to find a job but they had to go NOW) and they have ridiculous furniture. live-in nanny. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35858802) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 2:57 PM Author: grad certs (acp) exactly how big were her tits?
and the kid is actually autistic? |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 3:01 PM Author: ma anand sheela the first kid is diagnosed autistic, yes. four years old and totally non-verbal.
she was probably DD or E. post-surgery more like a C. post-kids who knows. |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:55 PM Author: Honda Grom ripping away over the horizon breast reduction is particularly egregious, perhaps post-bacc to med school is revenge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35856655) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 9:03 AM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35857729) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:56 PM Author: .,.,,.;;...;;.;;;.;.;.....;.;;;;.....; worst flame ever (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35856659) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 11:33 AM Author: ma anand sheela lol which part. i promise you this is all 100% real. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35858806) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 11:50 AM Author: .,.,,.;;...;;.;;;.;.;.....;.;;;;.....; - being in debt with an 800k/year salary - going back to med school in your 40s despite making 800k/year - buildig multiple houses from scratch despite wanting to go back to med school and being in debt
very elaborate, well executed flame |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:20 PM Author: ''''''''''"' (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35859779) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 2:37 PM Author: nutella It’s actually very poorly executed flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35860628) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 2:56 PM Author: ma anand sheela every word of it is true, nutella. i'm sorry someone has usurped you as queen of the shrews (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35860922) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:41 AM Author: bloodacre (bloodacre) You are a terrible mother and should feel guilty for even having this thought! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850472) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:39 AM Author: gunt one of them hosted a baby shower where someone changed a diaper in their apt. then they were like omg and I could smell it for the whole day. I want to kill them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850905) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:09 AM Author: broccoli nigger A Down's baby is the new Birkin bag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850670) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:27 AM Author: bird brain alimony explosion 33 year old multimillionaire neverkidmo here, sup (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850813) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:49 AM Author: lawdads8 (0x122FE543166A7B3f26D5131495083fD653d4CBD2) Good. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35850952) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:58 AM Author: Hula Hula Boys (Dr. Thunder 0xE4D4d5d2357f9070e710FaCB96745Df340b63a77) I say this as a late 30s mo who at this point will probably never have a wife & kids, despite coaching kids probably being my best talent: I don’t understand the rationalization that you will spend your 40s & 50s sharing time with your family. Um, they’re going to die, or at least be sick & old. That’s not quality time. It’s sad time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35851022) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 2:59 PM Author: Cogsworth Same. Know lots of couples like this. It's clearly the women cause the men don't even have fun anymore. Some are having a kid early 30s. Internet said don't have kids and the women got addicted to the "prance around taking instagram pictures of artisanal scones bs. " terrifying. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35852201) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 3:13 PM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside My fiancee's cousin is kinda like this. It's pathetic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35852328) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:57 PM Author: alzabo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35856672) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 3:17 PM Author: the gorgon lmao they sound retarded (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35852368) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 3:25 PM Author: gunt how many kids do you have (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35852486) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:48 PM Author: ..............;................... I don't think people really understand what it means to have young kids when you're 40.
I'm early 30s and feel too old for some of this shit, then I see a couple of 40 year olds so set in their ways as they scream at each other about parenting.
I get that these people are trying to soak up their last carefree years w/o a baby, but they don't realize that you need at least some of that carefree attitude to raise a baby or you'll go ballistic. |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 8:02 AM Author: Jimmy Clausen Cr. I can’t imagine having a toddler at 40. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35857597) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 11:43 AM Author: Edinburgh Ran here just to agree.
You age a lot between 30-40, no matter how you take care of yourself. You just don't have the energy and stamina of a 30 year old when you're 40. I went through all the awkward toddler and young children phases in my early-mid 30s. Can't imagine going through that in my 40s! In my early 40s my kids will be hitting their teens, which is a different set of issues, but nowhere as physically demanding as having young children. |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 11:48 AM Author: the goys are back in town CR. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35858931) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:27 PM Author: ''''''''''"' I am a nokidmo in a DINK relationship. We are both in our early 30s. Even just 5 years ago, my habits would have been flexible enough to accomodate a child and a needy gf. Now, I am really set in my ways and just have less energy and patience, so bringing in a kid would require a huge psychological and change in habits. It would be tough, but I still want one. Way less patience for women though, and it takes two to tango... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35859837) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:53 PM Author: .,.,,.;;...;;.;;;.;.;.....;.;;;;.....; one of my biggest fears is having some autist for a kid b/c we waited too long
i don't think anyone ever feels ready for a baby, but a woman's bio clock means she needs to have it by 35 |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 7:25 AM Author: Scarlett O'Hara (Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me) I know several people who had babies post-35 and their kids are fine.
Autism risk is tied to the father's age anyway, not the mother's. |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 11:35 AM Author: ma anand sheela lol no (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35858824) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 11:44 AM Author: Edinburgh It is tied to the father's age. The odds of autism goes up greatly the older you get. It is not the norm to have an autistic child if the father is 40/mid 40s but when the father is closer to 50 and in his 50s then the odds goes up substantially. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35858901) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 11:47 AM Author: ma anand sheela the father's age is a factor. i was loling at her rationalizing that there is no connection to the mother's age (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35858919) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 11:45 AM Author: decent man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35858906) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 7:55 AM Author: Lodestar Seems credited. Kidhavers complain so much. Once one of your friends has a kid, it starts looking like an awful idea (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35857582) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: a den of proles this is what the early stages of civilizational collapse look like (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35858772) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:28 PM Author: (\/)(;,,;)(\/) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35859846) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:33 PM Author: MAF speak-and-spell retard (u$po) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35859890) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:34 PM Author: ''''''''''"' This society makes it artificially difficult and stressful to raise children. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35859905) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:35 PM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside more stressful now than a couple centuries ago? how? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35859918) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:44 PM Author: decent man when he says "artificial" he might mean optional fraud shit u can do or not do but that people get flamed into seeing as necessary. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35860014) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:46 PM Author: ''''''''''"' ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35860021) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:49 PM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside you know i read his poast quickly and missed the word artificially.
yes i agree with all of that. |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:47 PM Author: ma anand sheela even up until 50 years ago people just had 6-8 kids because they were laborers and you were bound to lose 1-2 along the way anyway.
now, with birth control, shitty nutrition, and waiting until you're past traditional life expectancy to start having kids, EVERY LIFE IS PRECIOUS and if anything negative happens to your kid your life is over.
i remember playing with my friends in the woods miles away from my house. my parents never batted an eye. today? lol you'd be in jail instantly. |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 1:50 PM Author: Baron Mark von Ironside idk if that's what he's getting at. people back in the day still cared deeply about their children. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35860064) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 2:54 PM Author: Honda Grom ripping away over the horizon early? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950536&forum_id=2#35860882) |